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Most people who've attended a music festival will tell you they've fallen in love and met their soulmate at at least one of them. But very few actually mean it and decide to marry that person! Our fateful meet cute took place on Halloween weekend, 2021 - the only year that Outside Lands Music Festival in Golden Gate Park would occur after summer ended. Alex, dressed up as a gladiator, laid eyes on Mindy, who was dressed up as "sexy", and sparks flew. Between the incredible tunes, immaculate friend crew (the reason for our introduction!), and magical forest setting, it was an electric encounter not soon to be forgotten. From there numbers were exchanged, flights booked (after Mindy left Alex on read for a week), and our relationship started.We started slowly at first, with Alex in LA and Mindy in SF. We'd get a weekend together every couple of months and spend it building our own little world with good food, coffee, movies, Stanley, trips into nature, and making each other laugh for hours. Then one Sunday, while listening to records, Mindy made the best meal of Alex's life, and the rest is history.

From Zhu to I Do: A Modern Love Story

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Jennifer Gray

McDavid Stoddard

Lizzie Beck

Eric Novak

Holly Novak

Whit Smith

Jackie Daru

Buddy Estes

Cecelia Novak

Callan Novak

Wendy Jarvie

All bridal party members will need to be present on site at wedding address (1410 Alexander Valley Road, Healdsburg, CA) at 4:30pm on Friday, May 29th for rehearsal. Rehearsal dinner is to follow at 5:30pm next door at 1400 Alexander Valley Road.

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TRAVEL INFORMATION For those flying in, nearest airport locations are:1) Charles M. Schulz--Sonoma County Airport (STS)--Located in Santa Rosa, CA (15 miles from downtown Healdsburg)--Taxi/Uber/Lyft available from airport to accommodations in Healdsburg, Geyserville, or Windsor 2) San Francisco International Airport (SFO)--Located in San Francisco, CA (82 Miles from downtown Healdsburg)--Uber/Lyft available from SFO to downtown Healdsburg--Car rental available at SFO to drive to Healdsburg ACCOMMODATION INFORMATION Healdsburg Inns/ B &amp; B's:1) Calderwood Inn2) Camellia Inn3) Grape Leaf Inn4) The Ruse5) Healdsburg Inn on the Plaza6) 27 North *If familiar with Airbnb, there are LOTS of charming Airbnb options within the city of Healdsburg as well. Budget-Friendly Hotel Options: (Healdsburg)1) Hotel Vinea Healdsburg&nbsp;2) Fairview Inn &amp; Suites&nbsp;3) Best Western Dry Creek Inn Budget Friendly Hotel Options: Windsor &amp; Geyserville (both an 8-minute drive from Healdsburg)1) Hampton Inn &amp; Suites Windsor2) Hilton Garden Inn Sonoma County3) WorldMark Windsor4) Geyserville Inn Scroll down to see each listed lodging option and follow the website links to decide which option is best for you. :) We recommend booking ASAP; Healdsburg's quaint and charming small size means that accommodations fill up quickly!

Occupying a 1902 Queen Anne–style mansion set on grounds landscaped by famed botanist Luther Burbank, this luxe B&amp;B is a mile from Highway 101 and a 10-minute walk from the restaurants of&nbsp;downtown Healdsburg. Refined, individually styled rooms feature antiques, original wainscoting and Victorian wallpaper. All rooms have private bathrooms, TVs, iPod docks and free Wi-Fi. A suite adds a kitchen. Breakfast, featuring produce from the organic garden, is served at a communal, antique dining table. Complimentary welcome wine is provided upon arrival. There's also a sitting room with a fireplace, and a covered veranda. Kids may be welcome by prior request.

Calderwood Inn

A stay at Camellia Inn places you in the heart of Healdsburg, within a 5-minute walk of Raven Performing Arts Theater and Healdsburg Center for the Arts.  This bed & breakfast is 12.3 mi (19.8 km) from River Rock Casino and 17.6 mi (28.3 km) from Safari West.
Pamper yourself with onsite massages or enjoy recreation amenities such as a seasonal outdoor pool. This bed & breakfast also features complimentary wireless Internet access, concierge services, and gift shops/newsstands.
Featured amenities include complimentary wired Internet access, complimentary newspapers in the lobby, and a library. Free self parking is available onsite.
A complimentary full breakfast is served daily from 8:30 AM to 10 AM.
Make yourself at home in one of the 9 air-conditioned rooms featuring iPads and iPod docking stations. Complimentary wireless Internet access is available to keep you connected. Private bathrooms with showers feature hair dryers and bathrobes. Conveniences include coffee/tea makers and a turndown service, and housekeeping is provided daily.

Camellia Inn

Located in a Victorian building in two blocks north of Healdsburg’s town center this boutique B&B serves a daily breakfast and offers free Wi-Fi in each guest room. Healdsburg’s restaurants and tasting rooms are 5 minutes’ walk away. Guest rooms at The Grape Leaf Inn offer antique furnishings and include modern amenities such as a TV a DVD player and a CD player. Luxury toiletries are provided in each guest room. Select rooms feature a deep soaking tub and steam shower. Guests are also welcome to come to our Wilson Artisan Wineries for free tastings at all eleven of our local wineries. All Grape Leaf Inn guests receive a welcome glass of wine. Guests can stroll through thel grounds of this B&B or enjoy a glass of wine or morning coffee on a shaded porch. Grape Leaf Inn also features a Prohibition-style Speakeasy. Guests can explore local wineries by taking a Healdsburg Wine Country Tour 2 minutes’ drive away from this B&B. Healdsburg Plaza Healdsburg Museum and Willow Creek Plaza Shopping Center are within 5 minutes’ walk away from Grape Leaf Inn.

Grape Leaf Inn

Set on 4 acres off Highway 101, this upscale resort in an 1883 Victorian Italianate mansion is a mile from the Healdsburg Museum and within 5 miles of multiple wineries. Plush, individually decorated rooms come with flat-screen TVs, complimentary Wi-Fi and luxe linens. Upgraded rooms have decks and garden views. Stylish, airy suites (1 in a former water tower) add wet bars, soaking tubs, fireplaces and private patios. There's also a secluded cottage. Parking and hot breakfast are complimentary. Other amenities include a heated outdoor pool, a putting green, tennis and croquet courts, and spa treatments (fee). Kids age 16 and over are welcome.

The Ruse Healdsburg

Built in 1901, this stylish B&amp;B is located among the shops and restaurants of Healdsburg Plaza. It's 0.3 miles from Highway 101 and a 7-minute walk from Selby Winery. The 12 refined, airy rooms feature bay windows or balconies, fireplaces, flat-screen TVs and free Wi-Fi. They also have en suite bathrooms, some with jetted baths or antique claw-foot tubs. Studios have private entrances and feature full kitchens. In-room spa treatments are available (fee). Complimentary amenities include a breakfast buffet and afternoon wine, tea and snacks.

Healdsburg Inn, A Four Sisters Inn

Located in Healdsburg and with Luther Burbank Center for the Arts reachable within 11 miles, Hotel Les Mars has concierge services, non-smoking rooms, a restaurant, free WiFi throughout the property and a bar. This 4-star hotel offers room service and a 24-hour front desk. Guests can have a drink at the snack bar. The rooms are equipped with air conditioning and a TV, and some rooms at the hotel have a safety deposit box. All rooms in Hotel Les Mars are equipped with free toiletries and a CD player. Bike rental and car rental are available at the accommodation and the area is popular for hiking and cycling. Safari West is 17 miles from Hotel Les Mars, while Petrified Forest is 21 miles from the property. Charles M. Schulz Sonoma County Airport is 8.1 miles away.

27 North

Located in Healdsburg, California, this hotel includes an outdoor redwood gazebo and patio. Free WiFi is included in all guest rooms. Dry Creek Vineyard is 3.5 miles away. Comfortably furnished, all rooms at Hotel Vinea Healdsburg feature cable TV. Decorated in wood furniture and Wine Country accents, each room includes a desk. A fridge and a microwave are provided. A continental breakfast is offered at Hotel Vinea Healdsburg. A 24-hour reception is available for added convenience. River Rock Casino is 10.4 miles from this hotel. Healdsburg city center is 4 minutes’ drive away. Nearly 100 wineries are located within driving distance of the property.

Hotel Vinea, a Travelodge by Wyndham

Discover the perfect blend of affordability and convenience at Fairview Inn, ideally located just moments away from Downtown Healdsburg, the charming Plaza, and the tranquil Russian River. Immerse yourself in the vibrant energy of our quaint town, with its boutique shops, acclaimed restaurants, and lively entertainment—all within easy reach from our doorstep. After a day of exploration, return to our welcoming inn, where comfort and value await. Experience the best of Healdsburg's attractions without compromising on budget at Fairview Inn, your gateway to a memorable wine country adventure.

Fairview Inn and Suites

Head north on the 101 from San Francisco to check-in at the charming Tuscan Villa-style hotel, Best Western Dry Creek Inn.  Nestled between the Russian River, Alexander Valley, and Dry Creek Valley wine regions the hotel is surrounded by all the best wineries in the region.
Relax in the beautiful and spacious rooms at the Casa Siena or in the luxurious Villa Toscana where each room overlooks the lovely Villa Toscana piazza.  Enjoy comfortable beds, ergonomic workspaces, and complimentary Wi-Fi. Lounge by two pools, energize in the fitness center or unwind in the steam room or sauna.
Being located in the heart of wine country has its benefits, as the Best Western Dry Creek Inn offers weekly wine tastings on Friday nights.

Best Western Dry Creek Inn

This downtown Windsor hotel is 8 minutes' drive from Charles M. Schulz- Sonoma County Airport. Free WiFi is available throughout the property and the comfortable rooms have flat-screen TVs. Hampton Inn and Suites Windsor- Sonoma Wine Country offers air-conditioned rooms with coffee makers, seating areas and ironing facilities. Suites include microwaves and refrigerators. Guests of the Windsor-Sonoma Wine Country Hampton Inn can work out in the gym or relax in the outdoor pool and hot tub. A breakfast buffet is served each morning. Windsor Oaks Vineyard and Winery is 3 miles from the Hampton Inn. Windsor Golf Club is just 2.6 miles away.

Hampton Inn & Suites Windsor - Sonoma Wine Country

Located in Santa Rosa, 28 miles from Mission San Francisco Solano, Hilton Garden Inn Sonoma County Airport has accommodations with a fitness center, free private parking, a restaurant and a bar. The property is around 2.4 miles from Luther Burbank Center for the Arts, 8.9 miles from Safari West and 13 miles from Petrified Forest. The property provides a 24-hour front desk, airport transportation, room service and free WiFi throughout the property. Breakfast is available, and includes buffet, à la carte and continental options. The hotel offers 3-star accommodations with an indoor pool. Guests at Hilton Garden Inn Sonoma County Airport will be able to enjoy activities in and around Santa Rosa, like hiking. Old Faithful Geyser of California is 18 miles from the accommodation, while Fairmont Sonoma Mission Inn Spa is 25 miles from the property. Charles M. Schulz Sonoma County Airport is 1.2 miles away.

Hilton Garden Inn Sonoma County Airport

Located adjacent to the Windsor Golf Club, this Russian River Valley resort has apartments with full kitchens. There are 2 heated outdoor pools and 2 children’s wading pools are on site. A cable TV with DVD player and CD player are included in all air-conditioned apartments at WorldMark Windsor. A private balcony with BBQ facilities is featured. A separate sitting area with sofa bed is provided. An in-unit washing machine and tumble dryer are available for convenience. Multiple hot bathtubs, a fitness center and a sports court are available for guest recreation. A pool table, arcade games and outdoor children’s play area are also provided at Windsor WorldMark. The on-site spa, Spa Alaniz, offers massage and body treatments. The Charles Schultz Museum is also a 10-minute drive away. The Santa Rosa Airport is 1.5 miles away. J Vineyards is 5 miles from the property. Oakland and San Francisco International Airports are within 75 miles of WorldMark Windsor.

WorldMark Windsor

Located in Geyserville, 19 miles from Luther Burbank Center for the Arts, Geyserville Inn has accommodations with a garden, free private parking, a restaurant and a bar. The property is around 24 miles from Old Faithful Geyser of California, 26 miles from Safari West and 30 miles from Petrified Forest. The property provides a concierge service and free WiFi throughout the property. Complete with a private bathroom equipped with a shower and free toiletries, all rooms at the inn have a flat-screen TV and air conditioning, and selected rooms also offer a balcony. All guest rooms will provide guests with a closet and a coffee machine. Geyserville Inn offers 3-star accommodations with a hot tub and outdoor pool. Guests at the accommodation will be able to enjoy activities in and around Geyserville, like hiking and cycling. Healdsburg Plaza is 9.3 miles from Geyserville Inn, while Laguna De Santa Rosa is 31 miles from the property. Charles M. Schulz Sonoma County Airport is 17 miles away.

Geyserville Inn

Travel/Accommodations

1.) Welcome Drinks: All wedding guests are invited (and encouraged!) to head to Duke's Spirited Cocktails located at 111 Plaza St, Healdsburg, CA on Friday, May 29th from 8-10pm. Welcome beverages provided :) 2.) Wedding Transportation: As parking on site of the wedding is small/limited, we will be providing a shuttle service to transport guests to and from the wedding. Shuttles will pick up guests at 2:45pm on Saturday, 5/30/26 from:A) Healdsburg Plaza (town square) to be used by guests staying in central/downtown Healdsburg as there is no all day parking available near Plaza.B) Healdsburg Safeway parking lot (address 1115 Vine St) to be used by guests staying out of town/drivable distance from Healdsburg Plaza. Cars can be safely parked in parking lot all day. *Any questions about shuttle pick up or day-of questions please text Jennifer Gray 605-212-6715 or Lizzie Beck 310-990-9455. DO NOT BE LATE for shuttle pick up as parking for guest vehicles on site will not be permitted, since parking space is extremely limited. * Shuttle service back to these two locations will be provided starting at 7:30pm, with rotating shuttles available all evening until the last shuttles leave with all remaining guests at 11pm. 3.) Footwear: The wedding and reception will be entirely outdoors, with a small amount of walking across grass/gravel/asphalt, so for your safety and comfort we strongly recommend flat shoes or wedge heels be worn. 4.) Attire: The theme for wedding attire is semi-formal bohemian garden party. For women, think floral print, flowy dresses, capes, potentially even large floppy hats if you desire!. For men, suits or sports jackets with slacks and button downs, floral prints encouraged; ties optional.

MUST READ

Drink some California wine and eat amazing food, you really can't go wrong! Sonoma Winery Recommendations: BellaFlowersJordanSilver Oak (Alexander Valley location)Robert YoungCornstockJVeriteLambert BridgeRaffanelliMerry Edward'sLynmar Estate Other must-visit sites in the bay area include: 1) Sonoma Coast State Park--beautiful beaches and coastal trails 2) Armstrong Redwoods State Reserve--trails through majestic forest of towering redwoods, including Colonel Armstrong, a 1400 year old redwood tree that soars 310 feet overhead! 3) Bodega Bay--beautiful coastal area (stunning beach, ocean cliffs, gorgeous views) with incredible seafood 4) Muir Woods--incredible redwoods, lots of trails to explore. Parking reservations required ahead of time online (up to 90 days ahead of time) at gomuirwoods.com

Mindy & Alex

Mindy & Alex

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